We are live for the 2nd year in a row from ITEC! See what we’ve been learning and what we are looking forward to. Show beings Monday, Oct 16 at 3:00 pm in the Podcast Pavilion.
This week we talk about our favorite pumpkin recipes…not really. But join us anyway. We get you set for fall sports and get ready to talk ITEC.
Tonight the guys welcomed Eric Ewald http://twitter.com/ericewald_iowa, principal from Iowa City, IA. We talked with Eric about his transition from the classroom to being a principal, how Dads as Principals http://twitter.com/dadsasprincipal got started, and getting Dads on Deck off the ground http://dadsondeck.libsyn.com.
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Different Schools for a Different World: https://www.amazon.com/Different-Improvement-Citizenship-Learning-Solutions/dp/1943874107/ref=sr_1_2?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1505962640&sr=1-2&keywords=shareski
It’s time to kick off season number FIVE! Join us at 8:30 pm CST.
Laura Gilchrist joins the show to talk about all of the business relationships that are happening in the KC area, where she developed her love for the outdoors, and what we should be doing for Mother’s Day this year! Plus, Brent ends the year with a great mic drop!
Tonight the guys welcome to the show Greg Kulowiec, one of the well known faces of the EdTech Teacher team. We’ll get Greg excited to come to Nebraska next week and ask him about how virtual reality is making it’s way into schools!
Being a parent and an educator in the same school district is tough. I would go so far to say that being a parent and educator no matter the school district is tough. Heck, just being a parent OR an educator is tough.
However, having children in school district where you work does help to provide little subtle reminders about the power of being an educator.
As a family, we are in a year of transition. My son has now entered 6th grade and attends the middle school where I work. My oldest daughter is in 4th grade while my youngest has entered kindergarten.
As an educator I love learning. My wife and I are both teachers and we just have a deep passion for learning and for kids. We want our children to be happy, to love learning, and to feel successful. We also want that for every student that we come in contact with as an educator.
As an educator it is easy to lose sight of the idea that everything matters. We become so used the routine and atmosphere of our school and our classroom that we sometimes lose sight of the small details that are the most vital for successful learning. We become so stressed to meet the needs of data, standards, spreadsheets, forms, and other elements that we all know are not always the answer. Because of this we don’t pay much attention the pieces that have long lasting impacts on a student. We feel rushed to get through more and more and more that we sometimes skip over or gloss over the little moments that can make monumental gains in the life a child. We simply strive to survive a job that is proving to be more and more difficult each day.
My daughter, the one in kindergarten, is just a spitfire in life. She says the craziest things, holds her own to anyone, and can go from giggling to pure anger in a nanosecond. As tough as the tries to act she is very sensitive and thrives off emotion. And so it has been an interesting year as she has moved to kindergarten. Letters and numbers are not her thing because they don’t come easy. She has had problems with speech and a few other things. She tries her best to not act like anything is wrong, but there are times when she shifts from acting angry to tears. She wants to be like her brother. She wants to be successful like her sister. She wants it all to come naturally and easy as it appears it does for her siblings. She is five, but is smart enough to know that mom and dad are intelligent and wants us to approve of here work.
She does not want to disappoint.
Her mom and dad
In one of these moments of anger the other day my heart broke as a parent. You see my daughter wakes up every single day during the week and instantly starts yelling. She throws a fit about her clothes. They don’t fit. Therefore, she won’t be able to go to school. Her socks don’t fit right. Her hair is a mess. She won’t eat breakfast. She yells. She screams. She is angry. Why? Is it because these things are true? No, it is because this is how she copes with the idea of heading to school where she does want to go. She wakes with stress. She wakes with fear. She wakes not with excitement to learn, but fear of what she can’t or won’t be able to learn. And this hurts me to the core.
She celebrates days when her class does not have centers. She was talking about school one day and she broke into tears. She was sharing how she always gets smaller stars on her paper because she is not as smart as the other kids. I don’t for one second believe this is intentional. I believe what happens is that during the work time the teacher simply marks the papers with stars as they finish and get things correct. However, in the eyes of a five year old who lacks confidence these stars are everything. They mean the world to her and are a gauge of her self esteem. These five pointed symbols are a sign of how others view her in her mind. It explains why she draws monster size stars at home when she plays school for hours upon hours on end.
Even if it is intentional to showcase the difference between right and wrong this small act, this small nanosecond of a quick scribbled shape on a piece of paper is the difference in the outlook and feeling of school to a child. This split second moment is everything.
Yes, we talked with her. Yes, we are working on things at home, but it is tough because she does not like to work on them because she “knows it already! DAD!”
The moral of this story is to make sure we take notice of the small things. Do we say hello to everyone? Do we acknowledge all kids regardless of how they act, perform, and behave? Do we provide positive reinforcements to help bring a smile to their faces? Do we do the things necessary to create positive relationships? Do we ensure that the stars we draw for our students are big and beautiful?
Because without relationships nothing else matters.
But with a relationship everything matters. With a relationship these small moments can be the difference between a smile and tear on the face of a child in which these two factors can be the greatest impact on any spreadsheet or data set that everyone seems to require these days.
Former guest John Spencer has a fantastic podcast, The Creative Classroom (iTunes link). This week, he talked about how his son wanted to start a cubing club where kids would get together and talk about how to solve Rubix cubes together. No one showed up for the first month, but his son didn’t give up. John shares how we can cultivate a growth mindset in our students like his son exhibited in this situation.
Be sure to check out former #dadsined guest Tom Murray’s post “From Heartache to Hope.” Tom was in the air flying from Ft.Lauderdale to Atlanta when a gunman opened fire and killed passengers in the same Terminal 2 from which his plane had taken off. He shares some great points that he learned from Gus during his layover in Atlanta. Great lessons that many of us want for our kids.
You can check out our interview with Tom here.